The 10 Best 12 Year Old Girl Gifts
What to Get For The Girl Who Has Everything
If buying something for a tween to wear leaves you fraught with uncertainty, stick with classic colors and styles that aren't trendy.
A 12 year old girl is mature enough to take care of pretty gold earrings or a neutral scarf that she can wear for years.
If you peek into the bedroom of the modern day child, you may be shocked by the number of toys she already owns, and this makes choosing a gift all the more intimidating. With the rise in popularity of elaborate birthday parties that often involve inviting the child's entire class or the whole neighborhood, kids are receiving more gifts than ever. By the time a girl reaches the age of 12, she may have accumulated hundreds of toys and possessions.
If you don't know the child personally, it's always a safe bet to ask mom and dad about their daughter's current obsession, especially because at this age her interests are often changing as rapidly as her growing body. It is sometimes more helpful to find out what a child doesn't need because a tween with a well-known passion for unicorns may already have a room dripping with unicorn-themed toys and décor that she is poised to grow out of.
Wearable gifts, like jewelry and accessories are popular with pre-teen girls as they become more fashion-conscious. If buying something for a tween to wear leaves you fraught with uncertainty, stick with classic colors and styles that aren't trendy. A 12 year old girl is mature enough to take care of pretty gold earrings or a neutral scarf that she can wear for years.
Experience or activity gifts are often appreciated by a tween who is growing out of traditional toys. Tickets to an event or a class can be a good idea, but keep in mind that hectic schedules may prevent her from using them. Your best bet might be an activity kit or craft supplies that she can explore on her own time or when hanging out with friends.
The Terrible Tweens
Most experts define a tween as a person between the ages of 9 and 12. No longer a small child, but not yet a teenager, the 21st century female tween is frequently facing pressures similar to what a teen would experience while undergoing the rapid hormonal changes of puberty. The majority of the tween years are spent as a middle-schooler, an awkward developmental time in our lives that many of us would never want to repeat. School-related stress is known to peak during the middle school years.
By the age of 12, some girls will be chomping at the bit to act and appear more grown up. During this time of tumultuous change, a tween girl may seem eager to leave behind childish things like toys and dolls, but they are still children and will appreciate play time, even if it is only done when their older peers aren't around. Parents should keep in mind that their daughter might want to play with her stuffed animals one day and beg for a cell phone the next. It's important to encourage this time of self-discovery while setting reasonable limits about things like social media so that their daughters don't grow up too fast.
Between peer pressure and all the hormones, the tween years are a classic time for girls to begin butting heads with parents about everything from having a smartphone to participating in family activities. Exploring new activities that you can enjoy together is one way to help alleviate some of the drama.
Gifts That Encourage Family Time
In addition to the social stresses that come with middle school, the difference in academic curriculum from elementary to middle school is often a giant leap. A science kit that reflects what your daughter is learning at school can be a great way to bond while sharpening her laboratory skills, with the added bonus that you will be encouraging her to maintain interest in the STEM fields.
If you want to encourage your child to spend long hours talking to you and not staring at their phone, it might be time to update your board game collection. While your “little kid” board games are sitting on the shelf collecting dust, a fun tradition that keeps families close is fading. Family game night can grow with your family, making it into something everyone looks forward to for a lifetime. Get your tweens and teens hooked on strategy or trivia games, or even some classic card games that you'll actually enjoy playing yourself.
For more active families, trying a new sport together could be the bonding experience that you and your tween need. You can surprise her new sports equipment or active wear as you embark on a new challenge as a family.