The Power Of Smelling Good
If you're new to the world of cologne, you may be thinking, "I shower. Shouldn't that be enough?" Sure. If you don't want to make a statement and like to blend in. But if that doesn't appeal to you, consider these reasons for wearing cologne. Let's discuss attracting a partner. Extensive research has found that a man's scent and sexual attraction are strongly linked in the eyes of others. The studies have essentially found that many women prefer men who they believe smell manly. There are certainly colognes out there that create that masculine scent. What's more is that women have a more finely-tuned sense of smell, so you can be certain they'll detect your cologne.
Smelling good will boost your confidence, too. That means that a good cologne increases your attractiveness in two ways: first, the smell alone is enticing, and second, the way it makes you feel causes you to behave in a manner that is attractive to others. You have to admit that you feel overall more put together when you smell good. Something about emitting a pleasant aroma gives one the sense of having his life in order.
The way you smell can make others feel good, too. The olfactory bulb, which relays information about smells to your brain, is strongly connected to parts of the brain involved in memories and emotions. So a cologne that smells like an ocean breeze can remind someone of a beach vacation they took as a child with their family, and bring all those happy feelings back. By wearing the right cologne, you can make people around you feel at ease, uplifted, safe, content, and many other positive emotions. Who wouldn't want to do that? That's a power that will come in handy in your work and personal life.
Tips And Tricks For Wearing Cologne
Wearing cologne isn't about just picking out the first one with a pretty bottle and slathering it on each day. There is so much more to the art of wearing a fragrance. Let's start by discussing where on your body you should apply cologne. If you put it on the right areas, a little can go a long way. Put cologne on areas of your body that create heat, like the back of your neck, your chest, forearm, wrist, elbow, and jaw. These are called your pulse points. The heat that comes off these areas helps push the aroma of your cologne out into the environment around you. Just one spray or dab should be enough in any of these areas. And don't do all of them at once; choose just a few. Never put cologne on your clothes as this can stain them.
If you want your cologne to last a long time on your skin, take a nice hot shower before putting it on. The steam from the shower will open up your pores, making your skin better at soaking up the cologne's scent. Next, apply a good moisturizer, like shea butter, before applying it. Cologne wears off on dry skin quickly. Specifically, apply moisturizer to your pulse points. You may also try putting some cologne on your hairbrush if you want to because your hair holds scent pretty well. Just don't put the stuff directly on your tresses, as this can dry out your scalp.
You'll need to stop using scented soaps and aftershaves if you want to use cologne. You don't want the smells of one mixing with the other; that will just result in a muddy and unpleasant scent. Also, check the expiration date on your colognes. Many people do not realize that cologne only lasts around three years. After that, its natural oils die off, leaving you smelling acidic. As a precaution, always try just a tiny dab of a new cologne before fully applying it. You want to make sure you don't have an allergic reaction. You will also find that some fragrances work better with your natural scent than others, so while a particular cologne might smell great on a piece of test paper, it might not be as pleasant when applied to your skin.
How To Pick Out A Cologne
When you're ready to pick out your cologne, think about when and where you'll be using it. For daytime events, summer use, or sporting clubs, you may want one with bright, energizing notes, like those of grapefruit or an ocean breeze. For evening events, formal gatherings, or winter days, you may want something with a more woodsy base, such as leather or cedar wood. If you want to make a statement in a professional setting and exude confidence, look for a bold fragrance that features spices. If it's date night with your significant other and you need to, well, perform, you may try scents like pumpkin pie, lavender, or licorice, which are shown to have aphrodisiac effects.
When it comes to the bottle, if you're working with little space and need to store it in your medicine cabinet, choose a small, compact cologne. If you're all about the show, there are some beautifully-designed bottles you'll be happy to display out of the cabinet. Make sure your bottle has a leak-proof cap, especially if it's a splash-on cologne. It's also important that spray-on colognes create a nice, even mist so you don't get too high of a concentration on one area. A clear bottle will make it easy to know when you need to buy more. This should help minimize the chances of running out when you really need it.
Some colognes feature a few other helpful features like a hanging loop for storage or a slender bottle that you can easily carry in your pocket. Some have ergonomic bottles, too, making them easy to grip as you apply them. Make sure your cologne is ranked to maintain its potency for several years, as well. Since you'll only be using it a few sprays at a time, you want to make sure the scent will last as long as the contents do.