The 10 Best Self Help Books

Editor's Notes

October 30, 2019:

When looking for self-help books, it's always smart to use a critical eye, as the industry is flooded with offerings that can sometimes do more harm than good. For this list, we considered thoughtful volumes that speak to age-old problems using a variety of approaches, so there is hopefully something for everybody. Having said that, remember that as an individual, you have a very specific set of circumstances and some books just might not speak to you. You may find you need to try a few out before you come across the one that hits home. When paired with other inspirational books and tomes that focus on nutrition and mental health, your library will be stacked with actionable guidance.

We updated this list by adding A New Earth and Grit: The Power of Passion. Eckhart Tolle's A New Earth is helpful for those who are looking for a shift in consciousness and doesn't try to push new belief systems on the reader. It's an excellent choice for new perspectives and divesting oneself from material wealth and possessions, but know that it is not a breezy read.

Angela Duckworth's Grit: The Power of Passion takes a look at the power of determination and uses in-depth research and evidence to back up her prose. You'll read about how grit can be learned, and that you don't have to be born with an obvious talent to come out on top. Helpful interviews with high achievers, military cadets, and tenacious students help drive the point home.

We scrapped The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and The Self-Love Experiment to make way for the aforementioned two selections. While the former represents a nice break from positive platitudes that can seem bland or repetitive, the author refers to studies and research throughout the novel but provides no citations, which we felt was reason enough to remove it from this list.

If you're focusing on financial and professional success, then selections like Grit: The Power of Passion and Tools of Titans should be instrumental. For personal growth, look to Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It, You Are A Badass, Why Do I Do That? and Not Nice. If you prefer a dose of spiritual or religious assistance, consider The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself and A New Earth.